Finding Calm and Connection: Joan’s Story

Joan* is six years old and lives with her parents, her brother, and her maternal grandfather. While her family is present, much of the responsibility for her care falls on her mother. Both parents work long hours, leaving little time for daily interaction or emotional support.

At home, Joan often spends her time alone. She shared that her father is rarely present, and her closest companion is her cat, Zeus. Outside of school, her days were mostly spent watching television and playing by herself, with limited opportunities to build relationships or engage with other children.

When she first joined Tiempo de Paz, Joan struggled with emotional regulation. She reacted impulsively, sometimes with frustration or aggression, and found it difficult to connect with others. These behaviors reflected a deeper need—for consistent care, attention, and a safe space to feel supported.

Over the past year and a half, Joan has been part of the program, receiving both practical and relational support. She now benefits from daily meals, educational support, and participation in activities such as lacrosse, which she deeply enjoys. Through consistent mentorship from teachers, volunteers, and staff, she has been guided in navigating her emotions and building healthy relationships.

Slowly, significant changes have taken place. Joan has become more settled, more confident, and more open to engaging with others. She now actively participates in group activities and has formed meaningful connections with both peers and those who care for her. As one of the youngest children at the Centre, she is surrounded by a strong sense of care and protection.

Joan herself expresses this transformation simply:

“I like lacrosse, food, and I need to pray day and night for God’s blessing and the care of my family.”

*children’s names have been changed for their privacy

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